Tuesday, July 22, 2025

The Cross He Wears

“May His sacrifice on the cross bring God’s love and mercy to us all.” ~ 1 Corinthians 1:23

After his baptism, the exhausted infant returned home and was put to bed. His was the kind of sleep adults dream of - peaceful and rhythmic, oblivious to any fear or pain.

Sometime later, his Mom said, “When I changed his clothes, I forgot to put his cross back on.” Joe, the boy’s Godfather, rose quickly. “Please let me put the cross on my new Godchild!”

But when he placed the cross delicately around Johnny’s neck, the little angel awoke and began screaming. His mother rushed in, smiled softly, and, in her soothing way, took the scared child from his outstretched arms.

No matter how she tried to console the boy – cuddle, rock, or sing softly to him, nothing worked. Next, Dad appeared in relief, but Johnny’s shrill cries continued, broken only by his gasping for breath in between.

When Dad carried the child out to their waiting guests, the baby’s cries ended immediately. He broke into a smile as sweet as a Dominican pineapple.

“That’s all he wanted,” Dad smiled jokingly. “He must’ve wanted to join the celebration.”

He’d barely finished when a loud noise from the nursery shook the whole house. A cloud of dust wafted from the bedroom as they all rushed in. A ceiling fan had fallen from right over Johnny’s crib. Huge pieces of wood and plaster were piled on the spot where the child had just slept.

The grace of his cross alerted the little boy… and likely saved his life.

Anyway, that’s how the story was told to him.

The cross he wears today isn’t to honor the Dad that may’ve saved his life. It hangs on a thin, gold chain that his Mom wore before her passing.

It’s not jewelry, nor meant to be flashy. For him, it offers both spiritual and sentimental significance.

First, it's meant to remind him of Jesus’ sacrifice on that torturous cross. It prompts him to take up his cross every day. In the words of John Wesley, "Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can."

Another reason he wears a cross is so that others know that he’s a Christian and to hold him accountable for that claim. It challenges him to live his faith publicly.

Finally, he keeps his cross near his heart to remind him of Christ’s promise of eternal salvation. He knows that he’ll be reunited with loved ones in Heaven someday and will recognize his mother and father immediately.

There may be other methods of achieving this, but for him, the cross he wears is the best. Jesus died on a cross; it’s the least he can do!

“Heavenly Father, lift the darkness from our hearts. Instill in us proper Christian faith, assured hope, confident action, and perfect love, that we may do Your holy and true command.” ~ St. Francis of Assisi