Friend Circle

 “Two are better than one, for they can help each other succeed." ~ Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Daryl’s hospitalization came without warning. Treatment followed swiftly—relentless and aggressive. Consumed by the fight to survive, he had little mental space for anything beyond the next round of therapy. The odds were clearly stacked against him, and he knew it.

Against his instincts, his wife Karyn urged him to be public about their situation - to be open, honest, and authentic with friends, family, and their faith community. Daryl resisted. Strength and self-sufficiency had always been core to his identity. Accepting help felt like surrender.

Karyn saw it differently, reminding him that Scripture calls believers to “carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2), and “rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn” (Romans 12:15). To her, asking for help wasn’t weakness, but humility. A circle of friends praying, encouraging, and helping out wasn’t optional; it was essential for surviving the ordeal.

Her argument won.

Karyn created a CaringBridge webpage to rally support and keep people informed without the weight of countless individual updates. An introvert by nature, she preferred the shadows to the spotlight. Every time she hovered over the “post” button, fear rose in her chest.

Something inside kept prompting her to continue posting until the miraculous day Daryl rang the survivor’s bell. Even then, she kept writing, regularly, for a full year.

Three days before her first post, a tornado struck their small community. Their home was partially destroyed. Smaller paychecks, delays by the insurance company, and Daryl’s chemo treatments paralyzed Karyn with the fear of becoming a bankrupt widow living in a crumbling house.

Then Jesus showed up... wearing work boots, carrying tools, food, and envelopes of cash.

Friends flew in from afar to help repair the damage. Others called, offering donations for materials, hot meals, and help navigating insurance paperwork. The generosity was overwhelming.

The blog quickly flooded with followers checking in for every update. She logged hundreds of prayers, each one, she later realized, had been answered in tangible ways.

They were sustained by a remarkable circle of friends, many of whom they’d never met.

Everyone’s situation is different, so this isn’t a prescription for how others should respond. Still, experience, and research, suggests that a loving community plays a vital role in healing. American Cancer Society studies show that survivors with strong emotional support often adjust better, maintain a more hopeful outlook, and report a higher quality of life.

Never underestimate the difference you can make in the life of someone facing cancer. A new friend is an opportunity to lift you both higher, because different people draw out different strengths within us.

Almighty Father, thank You for the gift of true friendship - for the joy we share in good times and the grace of showing up for one another when life is shaken. What a privilege it is to share good times and be present for others when challenges disrupt our lives. Amen

Guided, Not Ignited

 “Anger doesn’t produce the righteousness that God desires.” ~ James 1:20

The blast shattered the quiet of the evening, a sound no parent ever wants to hear near a child’s bedroom window. Glass exploded. Wood splintered. Smoke rose from the front porch of the small Montgomery home where Martin Luther King Jr. lived with his wife and baby daughter. The bomb barely missed them in 1956.

Neighbors ran. Sirens wailed. Fear moved faster than the chaos that followed.

A crowd filled the lawn from every direction, working men, weary women, some gripping bricks, some bottles, all carrying a rage that’d been gathering for years. They had seen churches burned, threats ignored, lives broken. That night, violence had crossed a line. It had entered the home of Dr. King and his family. Retribution felt righteous. Necessary. Long overdue.

Inside the house, Reverend King’s knees hit the floor in prayer. He’d preached courage while secretly carrying fear. This time, danger wasn’t theoretical - it had arrived with dynamite. For a moment, even he didn’t know what to say. But he stepped outside, anyway.

Standing amid his porch’s wreckage, unarmed and unguarded, he raised his voice, not in anger, but calmly and deliberately. “Put down your weapons,” he said. The noise immediately faded.

“We can’t solve this problem through retaliatory violence,” he continued. “We must love our white brothers, no matter what they do to us.”

Some wept. Others trembled. This was not the response they wanted, but the one they needed. King looked at them and said softly, “If you harm anyone, you harm me. If you have a gun, take me first.” Weapons began littering the grass.

That night, the Civil Rights movement stood at a crossroads between rage and restraint, between justice by force and justice by faith. In a broken house on a quiet street, King chose the much harder path, one that demanded discipline rather than release.

Decades later, another city wrestles with its own tension as sirens echo through Minneapolis. Crowds gather, grief and frustration close at hand. When agents, protesters, and media turn to blame, human dialogue collapses. When rhetoric escalates, solutions retreat. History reminds us that lasting change rarely comes from burning down the middle ground; it comes from widening it.

King’s response that night was deliberate, not passive. He insisted that anger be shaped into something constructive - something that could still speak to lawmakers, persuade neighbors, and leave room for reform. He understood that systems change through pressure and persuasion, protest and policy, moral witness and conversation from both sides.

The choice is not between silence and chaos. It’s between escalation and engagement.

The porch was damaged. The moment was volatile. But the path forward remained hopeful,  because someone insisted that justice moves best when it is guided, not ignited.

Lord, grant us the courage to stand for justice without yielding to anger. Teach us patience in moments of fear, wisdom in instants of outrage, and the strength to choose paths that build understanding rather than deepen division. Amen

It Only Took One

 “Teach kids to choose the right path, and they’ll stay on it when older.” ~ Proverbs 22:6

The teacher begged for more time to work with him… to help shift his focus, to show Mateo that someone actually gave a damn. He had the classic troubled childhood background that gave him little chance of succeeding in life.

Mateo’s mom was chronically ill from drug addiction, his father but a distant memory. At 17, he was alone – emotionally, financially, and academically. He wasn’t a high school dropout yet. But his failing grades and labels like “unfocussed, rebellious, and loser” had already begun to define him, steering him toward a dismal future many assumed was inevitable.

The principal argued that the teen had cycled through every program the district offered kids like Mateo. Mrs. Farley, his teacher, made a strong case for giving Mateo another chance  - and won.

Farley stayed late, listened longer, and showed up consistently. She focused on trust before instruction, encouragement before correction. Together, they identified areas for improvement, set realistic goals, and slowly built the mindset Mateo needed to make confident changes.

In time, Farley noticed some encouraging progress. Mateo’s attendance, attitude, and social skills improved. Other teachers noticed increased participation, steadier grades, and a boy who was finally beginning to engage.

Mateo had never known this kind of attention. It should have come from home, but like millions of young people, he was desperate for just one dependable adult. Then, without warning, Mrs. Farley left the school due to a family health emergency. The following semester, she learned Mateo had quit school and never returned.

Had she left too soon? Was it naïve to believe her presence could have made a lasting difference? She would never know—and the unanswered questions stayed with her. Now, she’d never know.

Years later, she spotted a man resembling Mateo talking with a group of young people. Her heart sank when the man broke free from the group and rushed toward her, wearing a shirt emblazoned with the logo of a local rehabilitation clinic.

“Mateo, how are you?” she asked, bracing for bad news.

“I’m doing great!” he beamed. “Mrs. Farley, come meet my friends.” She followed, expecting to hear about struggles rather than success.

“Sarah, Brandon, Jess,” he began, “this is my favorite teacher from high school, the one I told you about. She was the inspiration for me to become a drug and alcohol counsellor. Mrs. Farley proved that it takes the faith and kindness of one person to give someone the confidence to change.”

He nodded towards his friends. “Now I try to be that person for everyone I work with.”

Programs don’t change kids—relationships do. Peers influence teen identity. But relationships with caring adults form the building blocks for all future relationships. They model belief, hope, and consistency.  Don’t miss your opportunity to be one of them!

Father God, You’ve entrusted us with the privilege and responsibility of being Godly role models. Lead us as we walk humbly with You, dependent on Your strength working through us. Amen

Nana's Prayer

 “Even to your old age, I will sustain you and carry you.” ~ Isaiah 46:4

Every morning, in the silent moments before the house came to life, Nana sat at the small kitchen table with her Bible and a chipped blue mug of black coffee. The house had settled into quieter routines, its old clamor gone, yet now and then stillness gave way to the joyful presence of an infant grandchild  - happy gurgles and hungry cries that livened up the space.

Her hands were much older now, fingers stiff with arthritis. They’d once trembled in hospital rooms, clenched in prayer beside their teenage daughter fighting a childhood illness doctors weren’t sure she’d survive. Those hands had pleaded through restless nights, offering boundless love and hopeful courage, asking God to spare their child.

And He had.

For years afterward, Nana wondered what the future might hold. Would her daughter remain healthy? Could her body ever carry a child of her own? Nana never voiced these fears. She simply trusted the God who had already proven Himself faithful.

Today, Nana sat in her favorite chair near the fireplace, cradling her infant granddaughter. Maria’s tiny hands fumbled with the bottle as she fed, eyes wide with curiosity, soft coos escaping between suckles. Firelight danced across the room, casting a glow that mirrored the love in Nana’s heart. Every breath, every sigh, every moment felt like a miracle – life born from one nearly lost.

Her back ached. Her knees protested. But her heart was full. Nana closed her eyes, tears tracing paths down her weathered cheeks. She bowed her head and whispered, “Thank you Lord.”

Then she took Maria’s miniature hands and cupped them inside her own. A warm glow flickered across their faces, as if heaven itself had paused to watch. No words were needed – only the pulsing rhythm of breaths, heartbeats, and a shared sense of gratitude – tender, holy, and complete.

Nana felt the weight of years tighten across her chest: the hospital nights, the unanswered questions, the prayers whispered through fear. And yet, in that same breath, she felt the wonder of the moment bloom, living proof that God had been faithful through it all.

Time seemed to bend, past and present meeting in a single, sacred hush. She thought of the long road, from fear to faith, from hospital halls to bedtime stories. Gratitude, she realized, wasn’t forgetting the pain. It was remembering Who had carried them through it.

As she readied for bed and turned out the lights, she folded her aching hands once more in prayer, not because she needed another miracle, but because she never wanted to stop thanking the One who had already given so many:

Precious Lord, thank You for the life You spared, the years You carried us through, and the miracle I held in my arms today. Thank You for every answered prayer… even the ones that came wrapped in waiting and fear. As my strength fades, let my gratitude grow, resting fully in Your faithfulness and promises. Amen

The Long Way Home

 “Love endures all things.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:7

When twenty-something Samuel left town, he didn’t say goodbye.

He was young, restless, and certain of being misunderstood. Every conversation with his father felt like a quiet correction, well-meant, but heavy to a son desperate to be his own man.

Henry, his father, believed in patience, in steady, proven paths. Samuel burned for motion, for risk, for a life he could claim as his own. What Henry called wisdom, Samuel heard as doubt.

Their argument hadn’t been loud, which almost made it worse. It ended in unfinished sentences and a long silence. With pride clenching his heart, Samuel walked out. He told himself that leaving was necessary; that distance would prove his strength. Success would justify any wounds he caused.

What Samuel never admitted, not even to himself, was that he left out of fear. Fear of failing beneath his father’s expectations. Fear that if he stayed, he would never discover who he was apart from the man who raised him.

So he chose the road instead of his father’s table, independence instead of reconciliation. There would be time later, he reasoned, after the anger cooled, after he proved he was right. But years passed, and by the time he learned that pride was a poor substitute for peace, the silence had grown heavier than the apology he spoke out loud.

Henry had always kept Samuel’s room unchanged. Not because he expected his son to return, but because love, once given, doesn’t know how to revoke itself.

Years later, a letter arrived in his son’s handwriting. “Dad, I don’t know how to come home. I just know I should never have left like that.”

Henry read it twice, hands untroubled and relieved. Its postmark came from the next town over, the one whose bus arrived just before dusk. Waiting had taught him to notice such things.

He folded the letter, checked the clock, whispered a prayer, and put on his coat. There was a chance, just a chance, that Samuel would be on the evening bus. Hope rarely offers certainty.

That night, Samuel stepped off the bus, eyes lowered, rehearsing apologies he feared would never be enough. When he looked up, he saw his Dad - breathless from the walk, eyes shining with unshed tears.

“I don’t deserve this,” Samuel said.

Henry shook his head gently. “Forgiveness isn’t something you earn,” he replied. “It’s something I chose long before you asked.”

They walked home together, slowly. Not everything was repaired that night. Trust would take time. But the greatest distance, that space between resentment and mercy, had already been crossed.

Later, Samuel noticed his bedroom light glowing. “You left it on for me?” he asked. Henry smiled. “No,” he said. “I left it on for myself. Hope needs light, too.”

Father God,  You see the roads chosen and the tables left behind. Teach us to choose love over pride, patience over distance, and hope over fear. Give us hearts that forgive before requested and the courage to return when Grace calls. Amen

His Thawing Heart

 “This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be grateful for it.” ~ Psalm 118:24

Everyone on Front Street knew Leo Pike as the guy who hated January almost as much as he loathed cheerfulness. He complained about the cold. He scoffed at resolutions. He muttered at neighbors who dared to wish him “Happy New Year.” January, to him, was just a long sigh between Christmas glitter and the first crocus of spring.

On the third Tuesday in January, one of those slate-colored days where the sky seemed to have misplaced the sun, Leo trudged outside to collect his mail, wrapped in an old wool coat that wreaked of pipe tobacco and stubborn resolve. He grumbled as usual. The sidewalk was icy. The wind blew steadily. Even the birds seemed to have given up.

Then he saw it… and something inside him hesitated.

Two young girls were putting the final touches on a snowman in Mrs. Delaney’s yard. With his carrot nose tilted skyward, charcoal eyes sparkling, and a grin bursting with delight, he seemed to glow with the fearless joy of childhood itself.

Underneath it stood a little sign on a popsicle stick: “Please smile at him. He’s doing his best.” Leo snorted! Ridiculous he thought, while a small grin snuck onto his face before he could stop it.

On his way back inside, he noticed children dragging sleds up the hill, rosy-cheeked and laughing. Their joy wasn’t loud or flashy; it simply existed, persistent as an ocean tide. One waved at him. He lifted two fingers in return, then realized waving wasn’t really his thing.

The next day, he found a flyer taped to his door - “January Warmth in a Bowl,” the village’s monthly soup night. Normally he’d toss it away. He read it twice, then he muttered, “Ridiculous!” and set his alarm anyway.

So he went. Leo sat at a long table among strangers. He tasted potato soup far better than expected. He listened. He chuckled cautiously, like laughter might crack if pressed too hard. Someone asked if he would come back. He surprised himself by saying, “Maybe I will.”

By the last week of January, the weather was still. He still believed the sky could try harder. But now, from his window, he noticed warm lights glowing in nearby homes. He felt the rhythm of life around him. The snowman stared back at him, leaning more, but still smiling as if hopeful.

Leo smiled back. January had not changed. He had. The month that once felt endless now felt quietly blessed, alive with God’s presence, a reminder that joy can be found even in grayest days. For the first time in years, he felt lighter, freer, and grateful for the everyday miracles around him.

Heavenly Father, thank You for seasons that teach us to notice Your goodness, even in quiet and ordinary days. Melt what has grown cold in us. Help us see warmth, hope, and joy wherever You place it. May our hearts awaken to Your presence. Amen

The Town Under One Roof

 “Just as each body part has a distinct function, every believer has a specific role.” ~ Romans 12:4-5

Nestled along the cold, steel-blue edge of Prince William Sound, Whittier, Alaska, looks like the kind of place you might miss if you blinked. An hour south of Anchorage, it serves as a gateway to glaciers, fjords, and breaching whales. But the spectacular setting has its peculiarities and lives by rules all its own.

There is only one way in or out: a single-lane tunnel bored through solid rock, opening in alternating directions every half hour. When it closes at night (10 p.m. in summer, 5 p.m. in winter), Whittier is tucked in, sealed off from the world. No exceptions.

Most of Whittier’s 214 full-time residents live together in Begich Towers, a fourteen-story concrete giant originally built for military families. Today, it functions like a vertical village.

The complex offers a convenient and secure place for people to live and access essential services under one roof. In addition to apartments, there’s a school, post office, medical clinic, café, grocery store, church, and municipal offices.

Rush hour isn’t measured by traffic lights, but by how long you wait for an elevator.

Begich is actually three connected towers, separated by narrow gaps, allowing them to sway during fierce winds or earthquakes. Bears sometimes wander into the maze of tunnels below. Yet the residents stay.

Even when snow piles nine feet high and wind chills plunge toward forty below, Mayor Daniels walks to work in sandals and a short-sleeved shirt. His apartment, decorated in cheerful Hawaiian style, overlooks the bay and the Chugach Mountains. “We keep binoculars by the window,” he says, smiling. “You can watch the whales breach.”

Locals like Traci wouldn’t trade this place for anything. “God’s little acre,” she calls it. “We live really close together, but we’re warm with one another. We look out for each other. I’ve learned they need me… and I need them.”

Whether sharing coffee downstairs or gathering for community meetings, the “Whittiots,” as they call themselves, have learned something essential: life works better together.

Scripture echoes that truth. We need each other! Just as a body depends on many parts working in harmony, the church is formed by believers united in Christ. It’s within community that our gifts are nurtured, our faith is renewed, and Christ’s love is reflected to the world.

God forms His church not from isolated parts, but from hearts united in Him. He never intended for us to walk alone. Alone, we weaken. Together, we thrive.

We become what none of us could be apart – many members, one body, sustained by grace and guided by Christ. It’s within community that our gifts find purpose, our faith deepens, and Christ’s love becomes visible - one life, one role, one body at a time.

Father God, thank You for allowing me to be a part of something dynamic, powerful, and eternal. Please help me find and use my special gifts and abilities for the good of Your people and to glorify Jesus, in whose name I pray. Amen

The Minefields

 "Stand still and see the saving power of God’s work for you.” ~ 2^nd Chronicles 2:17

As World War II raged across Europe during the brutal winter of 1944, 1^st Lt. Vernon Baker commanded a weapons platoon of the 92nd Infantry Division (a segregated, all-Black division known as the "Buffalo Soldiers"). In mid-January, amid the thunder of war and the frozen French countryside, he received a letter from his mother in Iowa.

She usually managed a letter every other month, and he hadn’t heard from her since just before Christmas. Her letter began strangely: “Do you remember where you were on Thanksgiving Day?” she asked. It seemed an odd question from thousands of miles away.

He remembered instantly. How could he ever forget that day!

At dawn, Vernon had been ordered to scout a crossroad rumored to hide an enemy strongpoint. Normally, he would’ve had his men spread out, using the trees for cover as they advanced. But that Thanksgiving morning, something made him pause. Something inside him hesitated, locked in a desperate struggle between military training and a Divine warning he couldn’t name.

The Germans were experts in deception. They hid anti-personnel mines in forests, along roads, near bridges - everywhere vital movement occurred. They created false tire tracks to lure Allied troops. Made of Bakelite or wood, these insidious weapons were impossible to find with magnetic or acoustic mine detectors.

Defying every rule he’d ever been taught, Vernon led his men straight down the middle of the road, fully exposed by the widening glow of morning light.

No shots were fired. The crossroads lay eerily silent and unoccupied. So they returned the way they came. 

Only then did they see it.

Nailed to the hidden side of the trees, where only the Germans would have noticed, hung weathered signs warning of “MINEN” (mines).

The forest had been a deathtrap laced with explosives. One step into the trees and his entire platoon would have been reduced to smoke and splinters.

Vern continued reading his Mom’s letter. She described waking in the middle of the night before Thanksgiving, what would have been sunrise in France, seized by an overwhelming fear that Vern was in grave danger. "When I reached for my Bible, a single verse from Second Chronicles 20:17 leaped off the page.” It promises us to: “Stand still… and see the saving power of God.”

Many of us are walking through emotional, spiritual, and cultural minefields with paralyzing fear. Instincts fail us. The path forward feels uncertain. Yet, the path through these challenges is shaped by where we anchor our trust. When our hearts rest in God, He steadies us. His steady presence carries us safely through dangers we don’t see. He’ll never fail us when we need Him the most.

Heavenly Father, thank You for going before me, shielding me, and fighting battles I cannot face alone. When fear and discouragement rise, teach me to stand still and trust You. Help me walk boldly, confident that victory belongs to You. Amen

Unpolished Faith

 “His mercies never end; they renew every morning.” ~ Laminations 3:23

Her city counted down the final minutes of 2025 with laughter, fireworks, and bubbling flutes lifted skyward. From her living room window, Tamika watched its glow reflect against the cold glass, feeling as though she stood between two worlds - the year that had bruised her and the unknown one waiting on the other side of midnight.

Her phone buzzed with “Happy New Year!” messages. Social media filled with highlight reels - promotions, vacations, and smiling families in coordinated pajamas. Tamika was genuinely happy for them… but her story didn’t look that glossy. Hers had been part miracle and part mess.

There were days she rose with purpose, others when heaviness pinned her to the pillow. She laughed in kitchens and cried in parking lots.

If asked her to summarize her year, she wouldn’t have a neat answer. It wasn’t entirely successful. It wasn’t all sorrow, either. It was… human. Holy in parts. Heavy in others. Still unfinished.

As the clock crept toward midnight, the familiar pressure whispered: You should be happier. More grateful. More “together” by now. But something inside her resisted the urge to pretend.

So Tamika prayed something far more honest: “God… this year was beautiful and painful. Some things healed. Other things still hurt. But, I’m still here - still healing and learning. And through it all… You remained faithful.”

The honesty felt refreshing, like brilliant sunlight breaking through a storm-darkened sky.

She realized God never asked for a polished testimony. He welcomed her honesty. And in that stillness, something gentle settled over her heart: God is not only at the finish line. He stands with us in the hallway between what was and what will be.

As fireworks crackled across the night and the year shifted forward, Tamika felt something deeper than celebration—hope. Not because her story was finished, but because God was still writing it. It wasn’t perfection that gave her peace; it was His presence. She wasn’t stepping into the future alone. She was moving forward with courage, not pretending to be whole, but confident that God would never abandon her.

And that… was enough!

Friends, Happy New Year to each of you. May you know you don’t have to be perfect to be deeply loved. May you feel God’s nearness in your questions, His comfort in your wounds, and His joy in your victories.

May this new year bring brave steps forward, deeper healing, steady growth, and unexpected laughter. Whether you walk into 2026 with confidence or trembling fear, remember - you aren’t alone, your story matters to God. Never doubt His steadying grace.

Lord God, thank You for being faithful through every joy and every struggle of this past year. I don’t bring You perfection—I bring You my honest heart. Carry me into the new year with Your mercy, Your strength, and Your presence. Amen

The Whisper of Love

 “Love’s endurance has no limits; its hope never fades.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:7-8

They’d both enjoyed successful careers. After 12 years of marriage, their five grown children had already left the nest. Lisa and Peter were nearing early retirements in favor of travel, golf, and relaxation when Peter’s diagnosis shattered their plans - Early-onset Alzheimer’s disease.

At just 53, Peter stepped away from his executive role, no longer able to carry the weight of responsibilities he’d once handled with ease. When it became unsafe for him to stay home alone, Lisa retired too, trading professional goals for the sacred work of caregiving. Their world narrowed, shaped by doctor visits, financial adjustments, and the slow unraveling of memory.

As the disease tightened its grip, Peter lost names, faces, and eventually even Lisa, the woman who’d walked beside him through every joy and sorrow. Yet somehow, deep beneath the fog,  where memory could no longer reach, love waited like an ember that refused to die.

One day, while watching a wedding scene unfold on TV, Peter grinned like a boy with a secret. He turned to Lisa, unaware of their already shared history, and asked, “Do you want to get married?”

Love instantly rose again! “When the person you deeply love chooses you twice,” Lisa later said, “how could you possibly say no?” By morning, the proposal had slipped away, lost in the haze of dementia. But Lisa carried it forward, asking nothing in return, not clarity, not permanence, only grace for the moment she’d been given.

With help from their daughter, they renewed their vows six weeks later, surrounded by family and close friends. Lisa wore the same dress from their beach wedding years before, adorned with jewelry Peter had once carefully chosen for her.

Fighting back tears, Lisa thought of Peter as she approached the altar. Her heart trembled with unanswered questions. Did he understand? Was he happy? Was he nervous like the first time?

When Lisa arrived at the altar, a confused Peter asked, “Who are you?” Then, leaning close, he whispered, “You look great.”

They kissed, and for a few hours, everything in the universe seemed to align perfectly.

Peter laughed and danced, joy returning like a long-lost melody. Photos later showed a beaming groom, hands wrapped tightly around his bride, as if love itself had steadied him. Deep memories stirred. “A piece of him came back to us. It was both heartbreaking and heartwarming,” Lisa shared.

Even though she tries to stay positive and focus on one day at a time, Lisa knows that the day will come too soon when she must put Peter in long-term care. Until then, she walks faithfully beside him, sharing their precious storybook memories, as if he’s hearing them for the first time.

While Alzheimer’s steals so much, love is almost always the last to go.

Almighty Lord, walk with all who watch someone they love slowly fade. Strengthen weary hearts. Guard us from despair. Teach us to see beauty even in loss, and draw us closer to You through every challenge. Amen