“The Lord comforts the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit.” ~ Psalm 34:18
Fluorescent lights flickered above
the circle of mismatched sofas in a room that smelled of old carpet and colored
markers. Here Byron held a weekly support group for children grieving the loss
of a parent.
Byron smiled warmly as he looked around at the small faces
of children missing their moms and dads. He reminded them of last week’s
homework. "For today," he began, "I asked everyone to
bring something that makes you feel like they're still here with you.”
Seven-year-old Miguel clutched his knees. The other kids had brought material objects: Maya held a silver charm bracelet; Lonnie showed off a baseball cap that still smelled like his Dad. Miguel’s pockets were empty. He’d searched through his mother’s closet, but her jewelry seemed too expensive to carry around, and her favorite coffee mug was too fragile.
Instead, Miguel looked
down at the small toddler sitting on the floor beside him, babbling to a
plastic dinosaur.
He couldn't describe the ache he felt since Mom died, only
that she was gone—but Emmy was still here. She had their mother’s button nose and
the crinkly laugh. To Miguel, she wasn't just a little kid—she was the loudest,
smartest, most lovable piece of Mom he had left in the world.
When Byron called his turn, Miguel froze for a second. Then
he gently scooped Emmy into his arms and stood to address the group. Little
Emmy patted his cheek with sticky fingers, leaving a smear of strawberry
yogurt.
The room grew quiet. A few of the older kids leaned forward.
"This is Emmy," Miguel announced, his voice
proud and clear. "She's my baby sister."
"You brought someone very special to our group, Miguel,”
Byron said softly. "Would you like to tell us more about her?"
Miguel nodded, finding his footing. “Mom isn’t here
anymore, but she left Emmy with us to take care of. We like to sit on the
living room rug and crash toy cars together—she makes awesome engine noises.
And she really, really loves yogurt, especially the kind with the blue
lid."
A few kids smiled. The heaviness that usually hung over the
circle softened, replaced by the simple charm of a two-year-old trying to grab
a shiny button.
Miguel
pressed his cheek against his sister’s soft hair. Her tiny chest expanded
against his ribs in steady breaths. In the quiet room, her body heat was the
only thing that felt real.
They weren't alone, and they didn't have to guard each other
from the world. They were just brother and sister, holding on and carrying
their mother's love as if she were still there.








