Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Eviction

“Help those who deserve it when its within your power." ~ Proverbs 3:27
Phuong plopped her plaster cast onto a foot stool, clicking the remote to scan through the channels.  Hurrying to finish her final chores at work resulted in a slip, a snap, a shattered ankle.
She felt the tension begin like a cluster of spark plugs in her gut.  Her body screamed at her to sprint down the street, to expend tension that kept piling up regardless of her inability to use it.  In wasn’t the pain of injury, but the fear of the unknown that stoked a primal urge to flee.
Phuong was 38, with citrine-toned skin and world-weary eyes.  She’d supported two small children over the years by working multiple part-time jobs rather than relying on welfare.  Currently she had a cleaning job at Embassy Suites by the airport and waited tables at the Mainstreet Tavern.
They’d been able to (barely) make ends meet with the help of her mother’s social security check.  But when she died earlier this spring, they’d started falling behind.  Their rent was five hundred and fifty dollars a month without utilities - the going rate for a two-bedroom apartment in one of the worst neighborhoods in America’s fourth-poorest city.  Shelter costs took 88% of Phuong’s $625 monthly take home pay.  Without income, she knew what came next.
Her first eviction had taken place 14 years earlier.  She figured that she’d rented more than 20 houses since then.  An “Eviction Notice” had been taped to her front door but she’d been too depressed to tear it off.
First, the landlord would summon the sheriff, who would arrive with a gun, a team of movers, and a judge’s order saying that her home was no longer hers.  They would be given two options: “truck” or “curb.” “Truck” meant that her things would be checked into bonded storage for an exorbitant monthly fee.
Phuong didn’t have the money, so she’d opted for “curb,” which meant that the movers would pile everything onto the sidewalk: mattresses; a 24” television; a lumpy couch, her mother’s dining room table and lace tablecloth.  They’d be spending Christmas at a homeless shelter.
Her landlord’s knock at the door could be the weight that finally crushed her spirit into oblivion.   Arleen, a short black woman with bobbed hair and freshly done nails, took the note she’d left off the door.  It read: ”Thanks for always paying your rent, I know it hasn’t been easy.  I’m waiving your rent until you can get back on your feet.  Merry Christmas!”
Arleen handed Phuong several bags of groceries, some she’d paid for with her own money and the rest she picked up at a pantry.  She knew Phuong needed it.
Phuong thanked Arleen and promised repayment.  Things were off to a good start.
Lord, thank you for the generosity of strangers.  From facing my fears and healing my wounds, I’ve become more resilient and faithful.  Through Your grace, let me be an inspiration to others of peace and compassion.  Amen ~ Phuong

Saturday, December 17, 2016

Ho, Ho, Glow

“Clothe yourselves with compassion, humility, kindness, and patience." ~ Colossians 3:12
Maury had grown weary and who could blame him.  At 71, he’d been doing the St. Nick shtick for over 25 years.
Technically, there's not much to being Santa Claus.  You must follow a script that deals with both children and adults – the main questions being "Have you been good?" and "What do you want for Christmas?"  You must wave at every person in eyeshot.  And shout "Ho ho ho!" occasionally then bellow, "Merry Christmas!" in a jolly yet grumbly voice.
But there’s a few challenges.
Looking the part is sweaty and expensive.  Encased in fur and velvet, cinched into gut-crushing belts and boots that don’t breathe, he became a rock star of the holiday stage hawking overpriced 8x10s.  Hopefully, there’s bathroom nearby – it takes about 15 minutes to escape his custom-made outfit.
His real beard requires careful styling.  Too much bleaching and it burns or turns yellow.
Sitting in the same spot for long hours does a number on his body‚ as does being tugged, hugged, squished and squeezed by hundreds of strangers.  At 6 feet tall and 276 pounds, staying in shape requires yearlong exercise.
Don’t even talk to him about the unruly boy who punched him in the private parts, the baby vomiting on his chest, or the girl wetting her tights while sitting in his lap.
When asked what it's like playing Santa, Maury says that it “simultaneously destroys and builds up your view of humanity.”
Occasionally kids blow your mind, and not in a good way.  A shocking number of kids ask for expensive gifts like the computers and flat screen TVs.  A 7-year-old asked for a Corvette last year.
There are humorous requests – a unicorn that poops rainbows, a penis (Peanuts) book, or a maid to clean his room.  Sad ones include getting dad out of jail, giving a blind sister the power of sight and bringing Mom home for Christmas (who’d recently died in Afghanistan).
Then there was little Maddie.
When Maury heard her story, he showed compassion for the 5-year-old battling cancer.  He took her hand, and placed a small bell in it, saying that every time she rings the bell, Santa, Mrs. Claus, and all the elves will pray for her recovery.  He added that he knew that she’ beat cancer.
It took everything he had not to weep.  Maury called a break to 'check on Rudolph' . . . and for some thoughtful reflection.
Playing Santa, he reminded himself, is about maintaining a sense of Christmas cheer in the face of holiday madness; about keeping the magic alive for hundreds of increasingly skeptical youngsters.  “I'm a respite from the sales racks, the jostling shoppers and traumas and dramas of holiday parties.  It makes me a better man.”
Dear Lord, don't let us miss You this Christmas season.  Help us to simplify our activities and traditions so we can focus our celebration on Your birth.  Thank You for the simple but life-changing message of Your love for us.  Amen

Monday, December 12, 2016

Crossing the Finish Line

“There is a time to be born and a time to die." ~ Ecclesiastes 3:2
Rhonda had always been an optimistic person.  She believed that negative events were temporary, limited in scope, and always manageable.  Her life had been rough at times.  She’d watched three siblings battle cancer and buried two of them way too early.  She should have been angry and bitter, but she wasn’t.  Rhonda looked forward to each new day and its endless possibilities.
That’s why the diagnosis of glioblastoma multiform (GBM), the most common and most malignant of all brain tumors, barely rattled her.  She vowed from Day 1 that her hope would never be extinguished before her earthly time was complete.
Seven days after the initial diagnoses, Rhonda had a partial craniotomy and a partial resection of her temporal lobe.  Both surgeries were an effort to stop the growth of my tumor.  When the tumor returned weeks later even more aggressively, doctors prescribed radical chemotherapy.
What many people don't realize is that chemotherapy carries a very real risk of death and other complications such as heart or kidney failure, not just the well-recognized hair loss, vomiting and infertility.  Balancing those serious risks against the potential benefits including life prolongation in the final phase of her life became a heart-wrenching balance.
There comes a point where death must be accepted; where quality is pursued over quantity; where hospice care beats lying in a hospital bed hooked up to an IV filled with poison.  When told that she had only months to live, Rhonda wasn’t upset, angry or frightened.  She’d already hit rock bottom weeks earlier.
Rhonda elected hospice care forgoing any more procedures related to the GBM diagnosis.  She chose to enjoy the rest of her life as pain free as possible without any medications that would directly attempt to attack her cancerous brain.
The always-optimistic woman was giving up; throwing in the towel so to speak.
Or was she?
“I’m not quitting,” she suggested.  “I’m dying … but I’ll live my final days positively.  I’ll still enjoy time with my family and friends.  We’ll still make memories together.  I’ll still answer all of the questions they’ve ever wanted to ask.  And as I prepare to cross the finish line, death marks the end of my earthly race and the beginning of eternal life.”
For Christians, the promise of everlasting life offsets the fear of the dying process.  Respect for the sanctity of human life does not mean that life must be prolonged by every technological means possible.  While we might long to be with Christ and out of our suffering bodies, Christians recognize that God’s will and purpose for life can still be accomplished by preparing spiritually for life beyond our earthly existence up until the moment of death.
Gracious God, may those approaching the end of life experience freedom from distress, spiritual healing, and complete trust in You.  Receive them with mercy and love, so that they may share joy, peace, and the richness of life with You forever.  Amen

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Under Siege

"God’s peace stills. . . and stirs our hearts.” ~ Rev. David Eardly
Seventy-five years ago today, U.S. Navy Ship's Cook Doris Miller had just finished serving breakfast to the crew of the battleship USS West Virginia moored along Ford Island at Pearl Harbor.  At the time, the ship's mess and laundry were some of the only Navy jobs available to Black sailors.
It wasn’t exactly the most glamorous gig in the Fleet, but it offered him the opportunity to enjoy the warm Hawaiian beaches and picturesque palm trees.  When he wasn’t cooking or cleaning, he took out some of his aggression by becoming the heavyweight boxing champion of the ship – a Colorado-class warship housing over 2,000 Sailors and Marines.
When the alarm for general quarters was sounded, he headed for his battle station, the anti-aircraft battery magazine amid ship.  Unfortunately, the ship was under attack by more than 200 Japanese torpedo planes, bombers and fighters that had destroyed his battle station.
This was a guy who’d spent his entire life overcoming adversity; he wasn't about to let a trivial thing like the entire Japanese Naval Air Force stop him.  The biggest, strongest, toughest man aboard the ship immediately started running across the deck, grabbing wounded men and carrying them to safety on the quarterdeck, where his injured comrades were partially shielded from the shelling Zeroes.
Then Dorie noticed that some of the deck guns were unmanned.  He rushed over to a .50-caliber anti-aircraft machine gun, strapped himself in and immediately went to work putting a giant curtain of bullets between West Virginia and the enemy.
Despite not having any training on how to operate the .50-cal, the ship’s main cook held his ground for fifteen minutes straight, blasting away from an exposed position.  The specific details of Dorie Miller's efficiency aren't well-documented.  His kill count ranges from "at least one" to "several" – but no one denies the fact that his courage and gallantry inspired many.
He only backed down after he ran out of ammunition and his half-dead commanding officer ordered him to abandon ship.  But not before he again helped move countless wounded shipmates through hellfire and chaos to the quarterdeck undoubtedly saving their lives.
The West Virginia sank at her berth in shallow water after on an even keel after being struck by six 18-inch torpedoes in her port side.  Sixty six fellow shipmates went down with her.
Although Miller’s bravery was initially overlooked, the black press pressured the Navy to recognize him.  On May 27, 1942, Admiral Nimitz honored him as the first African-American awarded the U.S. Navy Cross.  He later toured the country promoting war bonds before being reassigned to the escort carrier Liscome Bay.  Sadly, Dorie Miller was among the 646 crewmen killed when the ship was torpedoed and sunk in 1943.
Father, Thank You for the men and women that protect this nation!  As they protect us, protect them as well!   Be with them wherever they are and guide them through whatever challenges and trials they face today and every day.  Amen