Wednesday, November 18, 2020

Honoring a Life

 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." ~ Matthew 5:4

A person of uncommon gifts, Camila always made the impossible appear easy and natural.  On 4South she reassured patients deemed "difficult" by other nurses.  One glance at that brilliant smile against her bright green uniform and their pain meds worked better, appetites improved and they slept more comfortably.

But this morning her patient, a middle-aged woman, died the night before.  Lauren had suffered an aneurism while preparing dinner.  There were no warning signs, no headaches, nothing.  A congenital brain defect; it had been a ticking time bomb since birth.

Her body was being kept on life support to harvest her organs for donation while her husband and teen-aged girls waited in the ICU.  Camila dreaded having to witness their grief.  But she also knew it was an honor and a privilege to be one of the last persons to care for his wife and their mother.

Camila entered Lauren’s room and spoke to her as if she were still alive, still mattered, still deserved first-class care.  She softly combed Lauren’s hair and fluffed her pillows for comfort.

Kept alive now only by a ventilator, Lauren’s lungs rose and fell as if she were still breathing on her own.  Camila held her hand, which felt surprisingly warm to the touch, and offered a prayer for Christ's healing mercy.

She remembered a beautiful floral arrangement left in the staff lounge by a discharged patient.  The flowers were still fresh, delicate shades of pink, the kind of color that brought a confident radiance and pleasant aroma to the room.  

Camila took the bouquet and placed it on the table next to Lauren’s bed.

Then she called a friend in Nutritional Services and got hot chocolate for the girls and fresh coffee for Dad.  She gathered up several packets of Kleenex so they wouldn’t have to ask.

The girls cried while Dad kept it together, at least for now.  Sometime during the shift, they said their good byes and thanked Camila for her compassion.

It’s been years, but she still thinks of them from time to time and wonders how they’re all doing. 

Maybe they think of her, too.

Nurses play an essential role in our everyday lives.  While many of us are sheltering in place due to stay-at-home orders, nurses and other healthcare professionals head to work each day to care for patients.  Nurses also have their own worries at home – loss of jobs for their spouses, perhaps kids with no childcare, bringing COVID-19 and other illnesses home to their families.  

But, they put their lives on the line each day because that’s what they’re called to do.

Loving God, we pray for nurses and all who minister to the sick, dying, and all requiring care.  May they be witnesses of Christ's healing mercy.  May we follow their examples of kindness and compassion.  Grant them the strength and courage to face each day's challenges and to remain faithful in their ministry of service.  Amen