Monday, May 2, 2022

Remember When

 “Godliness with satisfaction is itself great wealth." ~ I Timothy 6

The 60s were tumultuous, frenzied … and magical.  Accented by riots, sit-ins, freedom rides, and even music festivals, young Americans marched for civil, equal, voting, and educational rights.  They demanded an end to discrimination, poverty, war, and pollution.  It was one big youth-quake.

I was just a kid until the end of the decade; carefree, innocent, naive.  Looking back, it's a miracle that any of us survived childhood in the 1960s! 

Back then, little kids sat upfront.  Drivers would fling an arm in front of you if they had to stop suddenly.  Seat belt requirements didn’t arrive until the '70s.

Smoking was modeled as cool, healthy, and a sign of maturity.  It wasn’t uncommon for kids to buy cigarettes for their parents, no questions asked.

The things kids climbed over and played on in parks were questionable (think hot metal slides) and not always built with safety in mind.  Parents expected you to fall and get back up without whining about scraped knees and split lips.  Just slap on some Mercurochrome.

Cereal was breakfast; a variety of grains coated with sugar.  You could probably spoon in 4 more tablespoons of sugar before Mom warned you about getting a bellyache.  We chased it with Tang, orange powder that magically became a sickeningly sweet neon drink.

Carpools were rare.  Even first graders were sent to school on their own once they learned the way.  Parents didn’t worry about bad people lurking along their paths.  Dawdling on the way home was allowed so you could stop off for a snack after school.

In Catholic school, we were exposed to several discipline techniques.  The classic was having a ruler smacked across your knuckles if you spoke without permission or fell asleep during morning Mass.  God forbid you forgot your homework.

During weekends and summer vacations, my Mom couldn't wait to kick us out of the house so she could get on with her chores or coffee with friends.  She called us in time for dinner, then booted us back out until the street lights came on.  We were kinda like wild dogs.

The '60s was the golden age of the tan – no UV protection.  Kids would slather themselves in baby oil with iodine and use lemon juice to lighten their hair giving it that California surfer look.

We rode bikes without helmets, played Jarts, and had BB gun wars.  TVs were stored in wooden cabinets bulky enough to be furniture.  Responsibility for changing the 3 channels fell to the least senior kid.

These were times when a handshake could still seal a business deal.  Children were able to just be kids to let their imaginations run wild every day.  I remember those days.  I miss those days.  I can’t believe we survived them.

Father, help me to purge unnecessary things in my life and simplify again.  Getting rid of the access clutter will enable me to address some other areas of cluttered baggage, worry, and stress that isn’t necessary.  Let Your promise be enough.  Amen