Tuesday, May 23, 2023

Empathy from Apathy

 “Love looks like sacrificial kindness and patience towards others." ~ Colossians 3:12-14

Christian (16) and Javier (9) wandered down a country road that bordered a strawberry field. They noticed a sweaty man toiling in the field, his wide-brimmed hat, long cotton sleeves, and dirt-infused jeans protecting him from the boiling sun.

His rubber boots had trampled many miles, some worn by countless workers before him. Fortunately, a newer pair of walking shoes sat beside a small knapsack under a shade tree nearby.

He averted the boys’ stare. Harsh Mexican street life back home had taught the dark-skinned man to remain as isolated as possible. Even a stray glance could mean trouble.

Javier looked at his older brother and said, “Let’s hide his good shoes so when he comes from the field, he won’t be able to find them. His expression will be awesome!” he sneered.

Christian shook his head. “The man is a seasonal worker, thousands of miles from home. He probably confronted dangers and experiences that will haunt him forever to find this backbreaking work - all for the love of his family and the hopes for his children’s future.”

“For a prank to be funny it needs to come as part of a culture where pranks are an accepted way to show acceptance and love. The key is to make sure it’s hilarious instead of harmful. It must show that the person is "one of us," rather than the opposite.”

“He looks poor,” Christian continued. “See his clothes? Let’s do this instead: Let’s hide some money in each shoe. Then we’ll hide in these bushes and watch for his reaction.”

Javier agreed and they placed some bills and loose change in each shoe. It wasn’t long before the worker came off the field, ragged and exhausted. He pulled on a shoe and immediately felt the cash under his foot. He emptied the shoe, staring at its content in disbelief.

Confused, he slid his foot into the other shoe and felt more money. Overwhelmed, he dropped to his knees and offered a short prayer of gratitude that the boys could easily hear from their hiding place. He spoke of his sick wife and two small hungry sons, praising God for this unforeseen bounty from unknown hands.

Soon the boys walked home, inspired by their generosity; an emotional warmth that would glow from within for some time.

Love and empathy are foundational elements of a functional society. And there is no person in history that set a better example than Jesus Christ. He didn’t form an army, build a headquarters, or even write a book. One of the most powerful ways of turning people’s loyalty to God is through the intensive fellowship of affection for others.

Loving Father, fill our hearts with the power of Your love so we can make a difference in this world and bring honor to You. Help us remember that the most significant thing we can do in this life is simply to love You and to love others. Amen