Wednesday, April 10, 2024

The Game of Life

“Be thankful.  Pray, sing, and dance to God with gratitude in your hearts." ~ Colossians 3:15-16

For Allen, the end of November is supposed to be a time to give thanks... unless you're a golfer living year-round in Michigan. As he stowed his clubs away for another season, he wondered why a game that makes grown men cry and toss their clubs like toddlers is cause for celebration.

He recalled streaks of bad holes where he watched the ball lip out for infuriating 3-putts. There were rounds where he couldn’t seem to find the fairway no matter what club he chose. Don’t even mention the “shank” he caught thin out of a greenside bunker that landed inches from the group on the next tee box. Yikes!

But understanding golf addiction is simple. At the end of the day, golfers forget about all the horrible shots. What brings them back is the one shot that convinces them that the weekend green fees were worth it.

It could be an 18-foot putt on the last hole to save par. Or a chip-in over a trap that bounces once, hits the flag, and drops for your first birdie of the day. Maybe it's reaching the green in two shots on a long par five with a perfectly struck three-wood.

The memory of that one shot inspires them to come back again trying to make another great shot.

Allen couldn't help but compare that thought process to how he approached work and life. Rather than focusing on the one good thing that happened each day, he sometimes pined over the dozen things that went awry. Instead of thinking about his successes, he replayed his failures.

His thoughts returned to Thanksgiving. For him, it wasn’t about the turkey but about family and the chance to kick back and celebrate how wonderful his life was. Being able to gather around the table and thank God – that was just magic!

So, as a new golf season begins, he vowed to forget the wayward shots!

There will always be at least one moment that may help you find your purpose, or at the very least, the courage to try something new, the confidence to keep moving forward, and the drive to finish the round. He’ll work harder at celebrating the one great conversation, the one selfless act of compassion, and any special moment that made him smile, laugh, and cheer.

Springtime is a time to consider your dependence on God’s gift in His Son Jesus. It’s a time to express thanksgiving for our many blessings, for friends and family, for our jobs, and for the many unexpected surprises in life that bless us. Actually, it’s also a time to thank God for our “blades, whiffs, and shanks for they cause us to grow in godliness and dependence on Him.

“Today, may we learn to walk more as Jesus did, with an appreciation for His duty of service to the poor. That He sought not to comfort His own ego, but to raise the glory of His wise words of love.” ~Angela Abraham