Sunday, August 10, 2025

Hands That Give

 “He took the children in His arms, placed His hands on them, and blessed them. ~ Mark 10:

Hands that have prayed, played, worked, and given possess profound beauty. Often, they speak louder than words.

They wipe away tears, soothe sore muscles, and show loving affection. We use them to cook a meal, pick flowers, and repair things. The distal appendages at the ends of our arms, which grasp, manipulate, and communicate, are key to our passion and fulfillment.

They reflect our age, lifestyle, and experiences. Hands tend to age faster than other parts of our bodies. Wrinkles, calluses, and scars, while viewed by some as flaws, can also serve as badges of honor, telling stories of a treasured life.

Angie (52) loved her hands. They taught her children to count: 1, 2, 3, ... on their fingers and thumbs, and also helped them grip the monkey bars at the elementary school playground. Later, she would teach them how to catch a ball properly and give a firm handshake.

As a midwife, Angie’s are the first human hands to touch an unborn child as she guides the baby out of the birth canal during delivery. It’s a special, sacred job.

When labor begins, mothers often require support, prayer, encouragement, and physical presence to endure each contraction. A midwife’s job is to keep the energy in the room positive. She places her hand on the mother’s shoulder and whispers that everything is going perfectly; that she’s safe, respected, and supported.

Then she places her hand on Mom’s chest and begins to breathe and pray with her until her anxiety dissipates, grounding herself through each contraction with intention. In just a few minutes more, a healthy baby is safely born into Angie’s loving hands.

The midwife sees a purity to the infant’s love, given and received. Her eyes are drawn to the baby’s tiny hands, like jellyfish, opening and closing. She knows in that moment, without a word said, that she’s witnessing first-hand God’s precious gift and immediately loves this child like every other.

Despite our hands’ variety and complexity of movements, we usually take them for granted, accepting them as simple mechanical aids. Jesus’ hands were no different, likely rough and calloused from carpentry and stone work.

But His touch was gentle; the Holy Spirit’s power flowed through each finger. He used His hands to heal the sick and marginalized and to multiply food for the hungry masses. They washed the Disciples' feet, illustrating humility and service. Even His nail-pierced hands represent sacrifice for our sins and His unconditional love for us.

Which begs to question: How will I use my hands? Will I use them to write notes of inspiration, to embrace those who are hurting, to provide for my family and church? How will I honor our Father with the work of my hands?

Holy Father, "Use my hands, use my feet, to make Your kingdom come. To the corners of the earth, until Your work is done." (Lyrics of the song "Follow You" by Leeland, sung by Brandon Heath)