Thursday, November 6, 2025

Quiet Mettle

 “Those who are humble and willing to serve others will please God.” ~ Matthew 23:12

Kids often place their dads on marble pedestals. Craig certainly did. But his father wasn't admired because he bought him a go-kart (he didn't), or because he helped him with his algebra homework (he did). Now in his sixties, Craig knew only that his Dad (Jack) had served in the U.S. Army in WWII, but not much more.

A modest man, Jack was firm but gentle, far from the caricature of the tough war veteran. He was not particularly muscular, seldom cursed, rarely drank, and never bragged about his combat duties. His medals, if they existed, remained silent as stones.

Other boys flashed B&W photos of their dads in uniform. They swapped colorful battle tales. Craig sometimes wondered why their own albums were blank. Maybe his Dad held secrets.

Adolescence blurred. Craig grew, married, and returned home to help care for his dying mother. As Craig sat at the kitchen table sipping coffee, his Dad shuffled in. Jack’s eyes revealed pain, but not just from the sadness of his wife’s looming death. Since placing her in hospice care, he’d been having troubling nightmares about the war.

Jack hesitated; memories flooded first. Then his eyes moistened as memories long ago rose to the surface, unhidden and unrestrained.

“Explosions cracked the sky; the sand was soaked with human sacrifice,” he sobbed. “All my friends died in that battle.”

He was one of the few survivors of the assault on Italy’s Anzio Beach in 1944. When the cannons quieted, Jack worked amid the ruins, gathering young men who would never stand again.

We loaded bodies and body parts onto donkeys so that every fallen soldier would find a journey home.” A single confession that shattered decades of remorse for having been spared the indignity.

Craig wept at the horror his Dad lived through, and the lonely burden he’d carried. Several years later, Jack joined his beloved wife beyond this world’s conflicts and winters.

With the help of the local VFW, Craig researched his father’s service record.

He learned that his Dad had served in the Army’s brand-new Rangers, the spearhead of a daring plan to outmaneuver Nazi forces near Rome. For his valor, Jack earned a Bronze Star, a medal that testifies a soldier stood taller than fear. Paradoxically, Jack’s secrets were uncovered and amplified.

Some legends never appear in history books. They sit at breakfast tables, smiling softly, trying to forget the thunder of battles rumbling in their memories.

Greatness seldom arrives boasting its own achievements. It often slips quietly through life with calloused hands and gentle manners, leaving no need for applause. Such heroes see their acts as gifts to God. True humility is hard to find because, ironically, the moment we think of ourselves as humble… we are no longer so.

Lord Jesus, when you walked the earth, Your modesty confused the arrogant. Help me never to believe myself better than anyone else. Banish any thoughts of self-importance and let my heart always imitate Your humility. Amen