“Give thanks to the LORD; for He is good." ~ 1
Chronicles 16:34
Ralph Elliot had an inspiring
teaching style; educating students beyond the traditional curriculum. He taught students how to believe in
themselves, develop meaningful relationships, and enjoy life to its fullest with
the passion of a lifelong mentor.
He was one educator the kids could never get the better of. Whatever witty retort they had; he did one
better. He turned their rebellion into
an advantage, not by belittling them or wielding authority. He checked their behavior with a style of
humor they could relate to, even aspire to.
Today when he entered his 7th grade classroom he
placed a sheet of plain white paper on the whiteboard - blank except for a single
blue spot. He waited until all eyes were
focused on the odd image; their confused stares begging for an explanation. “Tell me what you see,” he questioned.
Some of them described the blue spot, trying to explain its
position on the page (lower right-hand corner).
Others tried to attach realism to the shape itself (looks like a
Victorian mask or a genie about to escape from a lamp). One clever lyricist even tried to simply define
the spot’s color (blue like a midwinter night an hour before pitch darkness).
After all ideas had been exhausted, Mr. Elliot began to
explain. “A fascinating discussion,” he began, “surely something to think about.”
“I’m surprised,
however. No one described the white
part of the paper. You focused on the
blue spot. The same happens in our daily
lives. We have a blank canvass to
observe and enjoy, but we always focus on the dark spots.
Each moment we’re
given is a precious gift from God. We
have so many reasons to celebrate: our friends around us, nature renewing
itself every day, miraculous discoveries ... but we focus on the dark spots - health
issues, money problems, complicated relationships, and other disappointments. The dark spots are so small compared to all
that’s good in our lives, but they’re the ones that draw our attention.
Research shows that people
who practice and attitude of gratitude are better able to cope with stress,
have more positive emotions, and are better able to reach their goals. Scientists have proven that they’re even
heathier.
Cultivating a sense of
appreciation will help you refocus your attention toward what’s good in your
life, rather than dwelling on the negatives and all the things you may feel are
lacking. And, like a muscle, this mental
state can be strengthened with practice.
So my message today,”
Mr. Elliot concluded, “is take your eyes off the blue spots in your life. Enjoy every one of your blessings, each
moment that life gives you. You’ll feel
more fulfilled and joyful.
Class dismissed!”
Almighty Father, forgive us for when we don't
thank You enough, for who You are, for all that You do, for all that You've given.
Thank you for Your amazing power and work
in our lives and for Your blessings over us.
Amen
