Tuesday, May 4, 2021

Try Another Way

 “Never tire of doing good." ~ 2 Thessalonians 3:13

Janae stood at the end of what seemed like an endless line at the grocery store.  She checked her cell.  Exactly three minutes had passed since she last checked an hour ago, or so it seemed.  The cashiers were doing their best, but progress was measured in millimeters. 

To prevent further self-pity, Janae shifted her attention to others in line.  A sublime compassion quickly washed over her for the mother trying to keep twin four-year-olds entertained.

Mom was doing her best, but boredom was about to detonate.  One of the girls walked over to a candy display, gazing back over her shoulder to gage her Mom’s reaction.  The other sister remained by her mother’s side, ready to bolt depending on Mom’s response.

Instead of the expected authoritarian voice that Janae would likely have used in this situation, Mom did something curious.  She squatted down to eye level, looked at the child testing her patience and calmly asked her to come back.

No worries, no anger, no provocation.  Just enough leeway for the restless child to make her own decision. 

She rejoined her family and retreated behind her mother.

The line had barely moved, so Janae decided to try and help. “Have you ever played ‘I Spy’?” she asked the girls.  

Two pairs of eyes looked at her as they considered her question.  Not the same fun as hopscotch or hide 'n' seek, but OK for now. 

Soon the children were engrossed in their own imaginations.  They noticed things in that store Janae would never have seen. 

Who knew that Kroger offered over 200 gift card varieties, or that fragrant bouquets are located near the store’s entrance to encourage impulse buying, or that favored kid items are placed at their buy-level on shelves?

Janae also noticed a ripple effect.  People who’d been grumbling at the wait, now enjoyed ‘spying’ two sweet sisters encourage and help each other find unique things in the store.  Time flew!

Soon, it was their turn to check out.  Janae took a moment with Mom.  “You did a great job back there,” she said.  “I was so impressed that you didn’t just hand them your phone.”

Mom smiled.  “I’m a kindergarten teacher, so I have other tricks up my sleeve than resorting to a mobile device.”  She laughed and added, “Thank you for stepping in!”  Looking down at her twins, she added, “You were our blessing today.”

Be a blessing to someone else today.  Your words or actions will be felt by them and seen by those around you, amplifying its effect.  By sharing your goodness with someone else, you lift them up. And they’ll likely pay it forward and do the same for someone else.

Father God, You never tire of keeping me safe and blessing me with abundant care.  Let my heart beat with humility and servanthood.  Keep my eyes and ears open today for even the smallest opportunity to serve You, to make others smile, to bring some joy to this troubled world.  Amen