Sunday, March 6, 2022

Praying for Others

 “Never stop praying." ~ Thessalonians 5:17

The plasma screen sat directly across from her like an unwelcome visitor.  A television should mean fantasy – like a hot air balloon, her chance to see so far and wide, to dream the world anew, the gateway to creativity.

Of recent, however, it was flooded 24/7 with the atrocities unfolding thousands of miles away.  She’d lived through WW2, Korea and Vietnam, but nothing like this.  Grace sat heartbroken; dumbstruck trying to process the events of last week – a free country being destroyed, families being displaced, whole lives reduced to charred fragments.  She felt helpless. 

Her foot tapped rhythmically, her cheeks felt tight, then almost without a conscious thought she picked up the remote to select the music channel and sat back, mind comfortably blank once more.  It didn’t alleviate her anguish.  Grace flipped back to news and wept at the images of hungry, frightened kids pleading for help.

Nathaly, her home health aide noticed her despair, stopped what she was doing, and sat on the coffee table facing Grace; blocking the TV.  Kindness broadened her smile.  Her eyes cast genuine warmth and empathy; an innate need to nurture.

Concern for fellow Ukrainians flooded her heart as well.  She still had family and friends in the region.

“You must think I’m silly,” Grace blushed.  “There’s nothing an old, penniless woman like me can do except pray.  At least I can do that,” she uttered half-heartedly. 

Nathaly continued to listen to her elderly friend with compassion.

“My frustration reveals something I don’t like to admit,” Grace continued.  “I don’t always feel like praying accomplishes anything.”

Nathaly now spoke in a soft, tender voice.  “Sometimes all we can do is pray because there is simply nothing else we can do.  Then we fervently put our knees on the floor, clasp our hands together and cling to God's promises through prayer.  We pray for whatever hurt is happening, whatever destruction.  We ask for peaceful resolution.” 

“But Grace,” Nathaly continued, “Saying “All I can do is pray” is doing so from a defeated posture.  Remember Who we’re praying to; Who’s hearing our petition.  This is no small thing.  We have the privilege of praying to the God who controls all things.  And when we pray to our Messiah, we must approach Him with confidence, knowing that He has the power and the desire to do what we ask.  Trust He’ll help!”

Truer words have seldom been spoken.

I know it sounds cliché, even trivial to think that the words we pray during these desperate times and situations will do anything to help.   But they do.  I believe in the power of prayer with every fiber in me.  I’ve seen its effects firsthand.

Almighty Father, remind us that we’re never meant to carry a heavy emotional load, but to take it to You instead.  Sometimes we forget the depth of Your compassion when we feel overwhelmed with pain and sorrow.  In those moments, there is nothing so welcome as a friend’s prayer directing us back to You.  Amen