Thursday, June 22, 2023

A Lesson in Humility

 “Learn of Me; for I am meek and modest in heart.” ~ Matthew 11:29

“Predictable” described his addiction path. He went from partying occasionally to drinking every night. When he began boozing in the morning to stave off the agony of withdrawal, he realized he’d become a hard-core alcoholic.

Joshua had children but never married their mother. A failed business venture left him broke and desperate.  When his house was foreclosed, he moved in with his parents… under one condition.

He entered rehab for the third time. His Dad drove him. There was no reason for optimism. Except this time, Joshua accepted his powerlessness and begged God for help.

God answered. Joshua found a commitment to sobriety he’d never experienced before. He returned to his childhood church and threw himself into Bible studies and volunteer work.

One glaring problem remained. He needed income. And now that Joshua was trying to repair the damaged relationship with his children, his financial obligations grew.

A friend offered him a management-trainee position at Chick-fil-A. He was grateful yet mystified by the offer. His previous attempt at business bombed spectacularly. He’d never worked behind a counter in his life. But he needed a job and took it.

In fast food, you work your way through every job you’ll eventually manage - if you survive. Initially, Joshua was given a late shift to avoid the rush hours.  Still, the work depleted him. He had no idea there are so many variations to chicken.

Working at night until closing also meant cleaning certain areas of the restaurant. Imagine degreasing an entire commercial kitchen every night if you've never done this. Part of the routine also included scrubbing the baseboards along the bottom of the walls in the customer seating area.


It was Joshua’s least favorite part of the closing checklist.  His boss would crawl under random booths to inspect how the baseboards looked BENEATH the benches where customers sat. Nobody would ever see that – yet it was important to her that Joshua did his job thoroughly.

But upon reflection, it was much more than about her being meticulous.

She took her responsibilities very seriously. She wanted to run the best possible business, which included attention to detail. So she crawled underneath booths in the restaurant to show Joshua what humble leadership looked like.

There would never be an award or recognition for taking care of the minute details. Yet they added up to big things. And leadership was best served by example.

Humility is one of the dominant principles Jesus taught in the Sermon on the Mount. His humility in life, death, and resurrection, testifies to one of God’s clearest and most memorable promises in all the Scriptures: “He humbles the proud and exalts the humble.”

A style Joshua would instill personally and require of his staff as he opened his own restaurant.

Lord, You taught us the meaning of humility through Your teachings and example. We pray that our own words and deeds reflect an inner sense of meekness, contriteness, and submissiveness to You, our God. Amen