Wednesday, June 14, 2023

Unlikely Friends

 “Don’t be selfish or conceited. Humbly value others above yourselves." ~ Philippians 2:3

One was black, one was white.  One was from the South, the other from the mid-west.  One was a first-round draft pick the other signed as a free agent and was relegated to the practice squad.

Gale Sayers and Brian Piccolo couldn’t have been more different, yet they became close friends. They had two things in common: open minds and open hearts.

It was a friendship that shattered social norms in the late 1960′s. They became the first interracial roommates in NFL history. Their friendship, love, and support set a brilliant example for the world.

Sayers, 24 at the time, was already an established star, a shy, humble black man who was generally regarded as warm and affectionate. Piccolo, the same age and white, had an effusive personality and competed with Sayers for playing time in the Bears’ backfield.

Midway through the 1968 season, Sayers suffered a ruptured cartilage and two torn ligaments in his right knee, ending his season. Piccolo became the starter. The two grew close when Piccolo vigorously and unselfishly supported Sayers’ efforts throughout his rehabilitation.

By 1969, the Bears were in the midst of a 1-13 season, their worst in the history of the franchise. Piccolo finally earned a place in the starting lineup blocking for the much-heralded Sayers. During the November 16th game in Atlanta, Piccolo voluntarily left the field unable to catch his breath.  A healthy Piccolo would never have done that, raising concern among his teammates and coaches.

When the Bears returned to Chicago, Piccolo received a diagnosis of late-stage testicular cancer. Sayers would remain unfailingly by his side while he fought for his life.

Sayers, who’d recovered from his injuries to win the NFL Rushing Title, was honored with the George Halas Award as the league's most courageous player for the 1969 season. At a ceremony in New York, Sayers gave an emotional speech saying there was somebody more deserving:

"He has the heart of a giant and that rare form of courage that allows him to kid himself and his opponent - cancer," Sayers told the audience. "You flatter me by giving me this award, but tonight I accept it for Brian Piccolo. It will be his tomorrow. I love Brian Piccolo, and I'd like you all to love him, too. When you hit your knees tonight, please ask God to love him."

Brian Piccolo lost his battle with cancer less than a month later at the age of 26.

Their enduring friendship became the subject of “Brian’s Song,” a 1971 made-for-TV movie that remains one of the most popular sports movies of all time. It resonated because of its truth. Their friendship, love, and support for each other was woven with threads of every color of human skin; a new symbol of humanity working together for a better future.

Heavenly Father, thank You for my friends and their spiritual impact on my life. I pray that our friendship will only continue to blossom, sharpening one another for God’s glory. Amen