Monday, October 11, 2021

The Dad of Last Resort

“Whatever you do for the most vulnerable – you do for Me.” ~ Mark 25:40

The day before Mohamed Bzeek turned 62, the stocky man with a soft voice and warm heart admitted himself into a hospital for colon cancer treatment.  Petrified at having to face the challenge alone, it served as a powerful reminder of the fear his own kids face.

The oldest of 10 children, Bzeek left his home country of Libya to study in the United States in 1978.  A decade later, he met and married Dawn, an amazing one-of-a-kind woman who’d opened her home as an emergency shelter for kids needing urgent placement. 

By 1995, the couple was fostering seriously disabled and dying children exclusively, wanting to give them the family surroundings not offered at a hospital or institution.  Most were abandoned at birth.  Dozens of nameless kids; many with little time left to experience love, hope and laughter. 

Bzeek, 62, has already buried 11 of those foster children, in addition to his wife who died in 2014 of lung cancer.  Without her, the widower could only handle two kids.

His only biological son, Adam, bears the challenges of Brittle Bone Disease; one so debilitating that even changing his socks can shatter bones.  Nonambulatory from birth, he ‘surfs’ aboard an ironing board attached to a pair of roller-skate wheels.

He began fostering Samantha when she was 6 weeks old.  A rare brain defect left her blind, deaf and prone to constant seizures.  Doctors said that she’d only live for a few months.  

For the past three years, he works with a nurse who comes everyday so he can take small breaks, run errands and pray at his mosque.  His last full day off was in 2010, when he visited Libya for only the second time since leaving his homeland.  Inspired by his humanity, Bzeek’s family in Libya also created an organization to shelter over 600 Libyan orphans.

The devout Muslim remained anonymous until an LA Times story in 2017 thrust him into a blitz of global media attention.  He did interviews with Al Jazeera, Telemundo, and British TV.  Within 3 days of the story’s publication, a fellow Californian opened a GoFundMe account on his behalf, eventually raising nearly $800,000.  The money was used for mobility renovations, air conditioning, a wheelchair accessible van, and a college fund for Adam. 

He set the rest aside for a second nurse if one becomes necessary.  Nothing for himself.

Due to Mohamed's compassionate devotion, Samantha lived to be almost 9 years old, passing away 2 days short of her ninth birthday in late 2020. 

He never dwells on why he chose to do what he does.  When pressed he explains, “My faith demands it.  Its obligatory!  If I can help somebody, I have to help them!”

Bless you my brother in Christ.

Father God, help me live out a faith that’s bold enough to enter the hardest places. Bless those children who are the most vulnerable of all.  Protect them from poverty, illness, and abandonment.  Lift them from evils like child labor, trafficking, and exploitation.  Amen