Friday, July 5, 2024

Gratitude - Pass It On

 “Praise the Lord, O my soul. And forget none of His acts of kindness." ~ Psalm 103:2

Procrastination is one of the main barriers to PhD productivity. But the 27-year-old remained totally focused until she began experiencing vision issues and, later, dizziness and numbness on her left side. Because her father had a history of migraines, she thought hers might have a genetic origin.

A routine MRI revealed a type of brain tumor known as a glioma. This tumor often occurs near areas of the brain that control body movement, language, or vision. After a 9-hour brain surgery to remove the tumor, her body began to slowly recover. Her mental health, however, had taken a hit and she felt stuck in despair.

Her treatment plan required both chemotherapy and radiation at the Univ. of Michigan Brain Tumor Clinic. During visits, Christina noticed how much of the talk around facing cancer is about “fighting.”

She found that metaphor exhausting. She “didn’t want to spend over a year at war with her own body.” She knew exactly what she needed – the gratitude tools she studied as part of doctoral psychology studies but hadn’t yet put into practice.

“It’s common for us not to practice these skills until we need to, ” Christina later explained. She decided to put her research to the test to bolster her resilience and healing. 

Christina began a digital gratitude journal. Every morning, she began her day writing three things she was thankful for and why. Specificity is a critical element of the gratitude practice.

Her 500-page journal is packed with words of appreciation for particular people, her doctors, or to her body for being strong during her year-long recovery process. She experienced firsthand that no matter how difficult the struggle, practicing gratefulness can help people resist depression and “rewire our brains to help build resilience.”

Christina Costa, PhD, is now uniquely qualified to speak on the topics of gratitude and brain cancer. As an assistant professor of psychology at Wayne State University, her courses focus on human mental strength and toughness.

Her research along with many scientific studies suggest that gratitude has mental, emotional, and physical benefits that can positively affect those managing a difficult diagnosis. She teaches students the importance of positivity and gives them practical tools to use.

Costa’s powerful story reminds us that practicing gratitude isn’t just something believers do out of duty. Although it’s true that God deserves our gratitude, it’s also good for our own well-being.

When we lift our hearts up to say, “Praise You, Lord” (Psalm 103:2 above), we’re reminded of a God who is not only a promise maker, but also a promise keeper. He promises to work all things together for our good. There is no greater hope than one who has conquered death.

Father, I kneel before You, confessing that my heart is too often filled with complaints instead of gratitude. Please forgive me. Help me see Your hand at work in my life and change my outlook into one of joyful satisfaction with all circumstances. Amen