Monday, November 25, 2013

Secret to Happiness

“The time to be happy is now.  The place to be happy is here.  The way to be happy is to make others so.” ~ Robert Ingersoll
The young waitress watched him shuffle slowly into the restaurant.  With head tilted and shoulders bent forward, he leaned on his trusty cane with each measured step.
Something about Leo separated him from the usual Saturday morning breakfast crowd.  Unforgettable was the twinkle in his eyes when he spoke; he had such a soft and gentle voice.  Cheryl could tell by the way he talked that he didn’t have much education, but there was a certain wisdom about him that she couldn’t quite put her finger on.  He seemed to study people – not in nosy sort of way, but in a manner that suggested a caring authenticity. 
“Good morning Leo, welcome back!” Cheryl said warmly. “The usual?”
Without a word, Leo smiled and nodded agreeably.  
Steadying him with one arm, she helped him into his usual booth by the window and get comfortably seated.  She leaned his cane against the table where he could reach it.
In a soft, clear voice Leo said, “Thank you, Cheryl . . .  and bless you for your kindness.”
“You're always welcome, Leo,” she replied and placed a ‘recycled’ newspaper on the table.  “I'll be back in a flash; if you need anything at all in the mean time, just wave at me!”
She busily waited on other customers while he finished the paper in silence.  “Thanks,” he gestured when she bought his order and refilled his coffee cup.
After he’d finished a hearty meal of oatmeal, crisp bacon and hot lemon tea, Cheryl brought him the change from his bill.  She helped him up and out of the booth before handing him his cane for the short walk to the front door.
Holding the door open for him, she said, “See you next week Leo, have a blessed week!”
He turned with his whole body, winked, then nodded a thank you.  “You’re very kind, dear,” he whispered softly.
When Cheryl went to clean his table, she almost fainted.  Under his plate was $300 in cash for his $7 breakfast.  He’d scribbled a small note on the napkin which read, “Thank you, Cheryl.  You’ve found the secret to happiness - your smile and friendly service over the years gave me something to look forward to every week after my wife passed.  I’m moving to Long Island this evening to live with my son and his family.  May the rest of your life be magical.”
Acts of kindness are not difficult or expensive.  With a little bit of imagination and forethought you can bring an abundance of cheer to an elderly friend or relative.  We are all going to be in their shoes one day (hopefully) so keep them in the top of your thoughts and do your part to help.  It will surely bring you more happiness than those you help!
Lord of life, help me savor every season as a gift filled with promise.  Grant me the strength to lovingly accept Your will, that when the moment of my ‘passage’ comes, I shall have no regret for what I leave behind.  Amen